Slater Vance, Bronwyn Vance, Angela Bassett, and Courtney B. Vance.Photo:Lionel Hahn/Getty
Lionel Hahn/Getty
And just like that,Angela BassettandCourtney B. Vance’s kids are getting ready for college.
Now, their high school seniors are cycling through a new rite of passage: college tours.
Celebrating their twins' 18th birthday in January, Bassett, 65, recalls feeling “just proud of the young adults that they are becoming, the friendships that they make, the maturity that they exhibit. We always sort of told them, ‘The more you do the right thing, the more freedom that you are allowed, that you are given.’”
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Courtney B. Vance, Bronwyn Vance, Slater Vance and Angela Bassett in 2017.Kevork Djansezian
Kevork Djansezian
Today, their kids are “a beautiful combination of both of us, of all that we have poured into them,” adds Vance.
The family of four attended the Governors Awards in January,posing on the red carpet togetherbefore Bassett was awarded an honorary Oscar celebrating her body of work. It was another memory made after her children and husbandsupported her Oscar nomination at the 2023 Academy Awardsfor her role inBlack Panther: Wakanda Forever.
Over the years, the children have learned to navigate what it means to have famous parents, says Bassett, whose new season of9-1-1hops to ABC on March 14. “Because their father and mother are in the public eye, unfortunately, or fortunately, they have to have an extra measure of discernment when it comes to people, which I think they get,” she says. “They’re wise little people.”
Vance and Bassett say they were mindful about taking turns working as their kids grew up. “Our mantra was, somebody’s going to be home. We were never going to have both of us gone at the same time and the nanny raising the children,” says Vance, whose mother also lived with them for five years before her death in 2017 from ALS.
As for their soon-to-be-empty nest, says Bassett, “For 18 years it has been about [our kids]. So it’s going to be interesting how we continue to make the effort to connect." She laughs, “I don’t know, we still have the dog!”
Courtney B. Vance, Angela Bassett and their children in 2008.Noel Vasquez/Getty
And as college approaches, friends have started giving the power couple advice. “Somebody’s telling me that, ‘Once you drop them off to school, don’t go home, go on vacation, go somewhere, do something,’ ” says Vance. “So you come back with some deliciousness instead of some sadness in your mind and heart.”
But, he adds, “Our life has been getting ready for this. Somebody told me - If you do it right, parenting is the job that you work yourself out of.”
As the children stretch their wings, Bassett focuses on staying positive. “I try not to worry,” she says. “I just try to pray more than worry. But it’s always a balancing act for a mom.”
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source: people.com
