Bethenny Frankel.Photo:Dia Dipasupil/GettyBethenny Frankelhas one message for cosmetic surgery aspirants: go ahead, but don’t lie.TheReal Housewives of New Yorkalum, 52, is opening up about her thoughts on aging and cosmetic procedures. While discussingher new venture with No7, she emphasizes to PEOPLE the private aspect of these surgeries.“I think you’re going to age, and it’s going to happen,” Frankel says. “People can talk about whatever they want. They don’t owe anybody anything.”Bethenny Frankel.Raymond Hall/GC ImagesTheSkinnygirlfounder even signs off on some cosmetic procedures, having herself publicly admitted to receivingBotox and fillers: “Do some work if you want, and get some Botox if you want, and do the best you can.”There’s a difference, however, between staying silent and lying. While Frankel may think that we’re all entitled to keep our surgeries private, she’s not okay with having major procedures while pretending it’s all natural.“What’s deceiving is making the public think that every single thing you’ve ever done is natural when it’s very clearly filtering and drastic surgery,” Frankel notes. “You’re really lying. That’s when it gets crazy.”Bethenny Frankel.Santiago Felipe/GettyFiltering has long been against Frankel’s personal beliefs. Back in December, she toldOprah Dailythat apps like Facetune and Photoshop are“destructive” and “rampant.”In September, she used her Instagram to demonstrate somebefore-and-after filtered photos, asking, “Doesn’t that really build up your self esteem?”Here, Frankel doubles down on her crusade against photo filtering and manipulation.“It just still looks like they’re not their own age, and it just looks desperate,” she tells PEOPLE. “Filtering looks desperate.”Bethenny Frankel.John Nacion/GettyWhen it comes to her personal physique and beauty, the formerBethennyhost says she’s trying to avoid becoming like a character fromDeath Becomes Her. She’s trying to stay beautiful at her age, not turn back the clock.“I only care if my face looks clean, and if I feel healthy, and if I feel like I’ve slept, and set myself up for success,” Frankel reflects. “I’m not going to be perfect.”All Frankel wants is for people to feel and look their best. Not everyone in the world needs to know exactly how you got there.“No one owes everybody an explanation for everything they do in their life,” Frankel concludes. “You don’t talk about your sex life. You don’t have to talk about everything you’ve ever done. You don’t have to call people when you’re going to get Botox. Live your life.”

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Bethenny Frankel Firmly Believes No One ‘Owes’ Anyone an Explanation for Cosmetic Surgery: ‘Live Your Life’ (Exclusive)

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Bethenny Frankelhas one message for cosmetic surgery aspirants: go ahead, but don’t lie.TheReal Housewives of New Yorkalum, 52, is opening up about her thoughts on aging and cosmetic procedures. While discussingher new venture with No7, she emphasizes to PEOPLE the private aspect of these surgeries.“I think you’re going to age, and it’s going to happen,” Frankel says. “People can talk about whatever they want. They don’t owe anybody anything.”Bethenny Frankel.Raymond Hall/GC ImagesTheSkinnygirlfounder even signs off on some cosmetic procedures, having herself publicly admitted to receivingBotox and fillers: “Do some work if you want, and get some Botox if you want, and do the best you can.”There’s a difference, however, between staying silent and lying. While Frankel may think that we’re all entitled to keep our surgeries private, she’s not okay with having major procedures while pretending it’s all natural.“What’s deceiving is making the public think that every single thing you’ve ever done is natural when it’s very clearly filtering and drastic surgery,” Frankel notes. “You’re really lying. That’s when it gets crazy.”Bethenny Frankel.Santiago Felipe/GettyFiltering has long been against Frankel’s personal beliefs. Back in December, she toldOprah Dailythat apps like Facetune and Photoshop are“destructive” and “rampant.”In September, she used her Instagram to demonstrate somebefore-and-after filtered photos, asking, “Doesn’t that really build up your self esteem?”Here, Frankel doubles down on her crusade against photo filtering and manipulation.“It just still looks like they’re not their own age, and it just looks desperate,” she tells PEOPLE. “Filtering looks desperate.”Bethenny Frankel.John Nacion/GettyWhen it comes to her personal physique and beauty, the formerBethennyhost says she’s trying to avoid becoming like a character fromDeath Becomes Her. She’s trying to stay beautiful at her age, not turn back the clock.“I only care if my face looks clean, and if I feel healthy, and if I feel like I’ve slept, and set myself up for success,” Frankel reflects. “I’m not going to be perfect.”All Frankel wants is for people to feel and look their best. Not everyone in the world needs to know exactly how you got there.“No one owes everybody an explanation for everything they do in their life,” Frankel concludes. “You don’t talk about your sex life. You don’t have to talk about everything you’ve ever done. You don’t have to call people when you’re going to get Botox. Live your life.”

Bethenny Frankelhas one message for cosmetic surgery aspirants: go ahead, but don’t lie.

TheReal Housewives of New Yorkalum, 52, is opening up about her thoughts on aging and cosmetic procedures. While discussingher new venture with No7, she emphasizes to PEOPLE the private aspect of these surgeries.

“I think you’re going to age, and it’s going to happen,” Frankel says. “People can talk about whatever they want. They don’t owe anybody anything.”

Bethenny Frankel.Raymond Hall/GC Images

Bethenny Frankel Firmly Believes No One ‘Owes’ Anyone an Explanation for Cosmetic Surgery: ‘Live Your Life’ (Exclusive)

Raymond Hall/GC Images

TheSkinnygirlfounder even signs off on some cosmetic procedures, having herself publicly admitted to receivingBotox and fillers: “Do some work if you want, and get some Botox if you want, and do the best you can.”

There’s a difference, however, between staying silent and lying. While Frankel may think that we’re all entitled to keep our surgeries private, she’s not okay with having major procedures while pretending it’s all natural.

“What’s deceiving is making the public think that every single thing you’ve ever done is natural when it’s very clearly filtering and drastic surgery,” Frankel notes. “You’re really lying. That’s when it gets crazy.”

Bethenny Frankel.Santiago Felipe/Getty

Bethenny Frankel Firmly Believes No One ‘Owes’ Anyone an Explanation for Cosmetic Surgery: ‘Live Your Life’ (Exclusive)

Santiago Felipe/Getty

Filtering has long been against Frankel’s personal beliefs. Back in December, she toldOprah Dailythat apps like Facetune and Photoshop are“destructive” and “rampant.”In September, she used her Instagram to demonstrate somebefore-and-after filtered photos, asking, “Doesn’t that really build up your self esteem?”

Here, Frankel doubles down on her crusade against photo filtering and manipulation.

“It just still looks like they’re not their own age, and it just looks desperate,” she tells PEOPLE. “Filtering looks desperate.”

Bethenny Frankel.John Nacion/Getty

Bethenny Frankel Firmly Believes No One ‘Owes’ Anyone an Explanation for Cosmetic Surgery: ‘Live Your Life’ (Exclusive)

John Nacion/Getty

When it comes to her personal physique and beauty, the formerBethennyhost says she’s trying to avoid becoming like a character fromDeath Becomes Her. She’s trying to stay beautiful at her age, not turn back the clock.

“I only care if my face looks clean, and if I feel healthy, and if I feel like I’ve slept, and set myself up for success,” Frankel reflects. “I’m not going to be perfect.”

All Frankel wants is for people to feel and look their best. Not everyone in the world needs to know exactly how you got there.

“No one owes everybody an explanation for everything they do in their life,” Frankel concludes. “You don’t talk about your sex life. You don’t have to talk about everything you’ve ever done. You don’t have to call people when you’re going to get Botox. Live your life.”

source: people.com