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Nia Long

Nia Longisn’t looking for “serious” love.

TheYou Peopleactress, 52, said she’s not interested in a long-term relationship right now.

“Oh God, I’m not ready for a serious relationship,” Long toldThe Cutin a feature published on Friday. “My mind is not even there at all.”

However, she isn’t ruling out romance completely and shared what she isready for.

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“I want to go out and have amazing, important, deep, thoughtful conversations.I want to travel. I want to laugh. I want to cook with my kids and listen to music. I want a good glass of wine. I want a good goodnight kiss. Everything else will have to show itself as being that. I’m just trying to enjoy the moment,” she said.

For now, the star is prioritizing herself and her career.

“I have a couple of passion projects I want to get off the ground,” Long said. “I want to go to Bali for a month, relax, breathe, and do yoga.”

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Last month, Long revealedshe has a secret crushand has no plans on revealing their identity.

“I have my eye on one person,” Long said onThe Drew Barrymore Showbefore making it clear she’s “not saying” who.

She added, “I’m never telling.”

In September, Longended her years-long relationshipwith fiancéIme Udoka, who wassuspended from his roleas head coach of the Boston Celtics following an alleged affair with a female staff member.

Long and Udoka, 45, had been engaged since 2015. They welcomed a son together — Kez Sunday Udoka — in 2011. Long also has another son, 22-year-old Massai Dorsey II, from a previous relationship with actor Massai Dorsey.

“The outpouring of love and support from family, friends and the community during this difficult time means so much to me,” Long said. “I ask that my privacy be respected as I process the recent events. Above all, I am a mother and will continue to focus on my children.”

source: people.com