Usher.Photo:Sanofi
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WhenUsherand ex-wife Tameka Foster found out thatone of his childrenhadType 1 diabetesyears ago, it changed everything.
“From the moment that Type 1 diabetes was a conversation, it was a re-acclimation to life. The life that we knew changed,” the Grammy winner, 45, says of the chronic condition in which the pancreas fails to produce sufficient insulin for the body, often requiring insulin injections to help maintain normal blood sugar levels.
“It comes with a great deal of consideration and commitment in itself because we’re all managing to make certain that my child makes the right decisions to have a happy, healthy life," he explained.
Staying on top of the disease takes teamwork between Raymond and Foster, whodivorced in 2009, and the star admits that it’s something they work hard at.
Usher Raymond with ex-wife Tameka Foster in 2007.Ethan Miller/Getty
Ethan Miller/Getty
“The breeding ground of disaster is lack of communication,” he says. “You honestly have to find the means and the ability to have mutual parties.” For him and Foster, “our [kid’s] endocrinologist is a mutual ground.”
What has worked best for him and Foster, with whom he shares sons Usher Raymond V, 15, and Naviyd Eli Raymond, 14, is trying to have understanding. “Her experience is what it is. My experience is what it is, and if we can find somewhere to meet in the middle to make the right decisions and also to be mindful of each other or at least sensitive to the things that matter to both parties, then that’s hopefully success for everybody.”
Usher Raymond and his sons Usher “Cinco” Raymond V and Naviyd Raymond.Paras Griffin/Getty
After years of helping his child navigate life with the disorder, he’s made finding normalcy a priority: “It doesn’t have to be a life vacant of fun or experience and the excitement of just being a careless young person.”
And even though Usher is gearing up to headline the2024 Super Bowl Halftime Showin February, he still faces the same challenge as any parent of teens does.
“Am I cool to them?” the star says with a laugh. “I think I’m really cool to my 2 and 3 year old [Sire Castrello and Sovereign Bo, with longtimegirlfriend Jenn Goicoechea]. They don’t know any better. But my almost 16 and almost 15 year olds, they may think I’m not. They’ll say ‘You need to update this’ or ‘You could be doing this.' I’m trying to make certain I stay cool to them.”
Most importantly, adds Usher, “Dad life is everything. I live for my children. I’ve seen every first stepandI’ve missed a few firsts as a result of my commitment to entertainment. But it’s a sacrifice. I just hope that they see me as the dad that I didn’t have. I’m a father that’s 100 percent about my family.”
source: people.com
